A good leader is not necessarily the one who sits or stands under the bright lights of the stage. It is the man or woman, youth or child, who sets an example worthy of imitating and following.
So, the leadership role is not really a choice we can take or leave, nor does indecisiveness provide an escape -- it is in itself a decision.
The question is not, "Are you a leader?", but "What kind of leader are you?"
"NOW THEREFORE, I PRAY THEE, LET THY SERVANT ABIDE INSTEAD OF THE LAD..."